One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned about perfectionism is that done is better than perfect. In my medical school and residency, we learned about “The Enemy”, a shortened version of “The enemy of good is better.” This is a well-known aphorism that originated in the 1700s and not in medicine.

Perfectionism seems to help physicians succeed in school and in training. Chasing perfection appears to be the acceptable standard during that time. But after we arrive at our intended destination–medical practice–it can make our life miserable if we continue to adhere to it. Not just work life. All life. It is no way to create a happy life because it adversely affects our relationships, both with ourselves and with others.